Her last major film role came in 1994 with Princess Caraboo. Soon after, Cates decided to step away from acting—not due to lack of opportunities, but by choice. She wanted to focus on her family.
In 1983, she met actor Kevin Kline while auditioning for The Big Chill. The two married in 1989 and went on to raise two children: Owen Joseph Kline, born in 1991, and Greta Simone Kline, born in 1994. Greta later became a successful indie musician under the stage name Frankie Cosmos.
Although she largely retired from Hollywood, Cates occasionally returned for small projects. In 2001, she appeared in The Anniversary Party, directed by her longtime friend Jennifer Jason Leigh. Years later, she reprised her Gremlins character in the 2015 video game Lego Dimensions.
Outside of entertainment, Cates found a new passion in business. In 2005, she opened Blue Tree, a boutique on Madison Avenue in New York City. The shop offers books, jewelry, home goods, and art, and has become a favorite neighborhood spot.
Now in her sixties, Phoebe Cates lives a quieter life, away from the constant attention of Hollywood. She has gracefully balanced her early fame with a fulfilling personal life, raising a family, supporting the arts, and running her own business. Fans who meet her today often note that she retains the warmth and elegance that made her so beloved in her acting years.
Phoebe Cates’ story stands out in an industry where many struggle with the pressures of fame. Instead of chasing the spotlight, she chose a different path—one focused on family, creativity, and community. Whether remembered for Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Gremlins, or her stage work, she remains an unforgettable part of 1980s pop culture.
Her journey is a reminder that true success isn’t always about staying in front of the cameras. Sometimes, it’s about knowing when to step away and finding happiness in life’s simpler chapters.
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Marisol spent six years chasing red carpets for a midsize entertainment paper and got tired of the same five questions, so now she writes about what fame does to people when the lights are off. She has a soft spot for the kids of famous parents and the older stars doing quiet, interesting work.
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