Richard Gere is a name etched into Hollywood history. Beloved worldwide for his performance in Pretty Woman, the now 76-year-old actor has enjoyed a remarkable career that has spanned decades. Yet, behind the glamour, Gere admits he faced serious challenges—at one point saying he had “screwed up” his career and even had to “crawl a little bit” just to get scripts.
Early Life and Path to Acting
Born on August 31, 1949, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Gere grew up on a farm near Syracuse, New York. He has described his childhood as “normal and all-American.” Athletic and musically talented, he excelled in gymnastics and played four instruments in high school. He even composed small musical shows, marking his first interactions with the stage.
After earning a gymnastics scholarship to the University of Massachusetts, Gere began studying philosophy. But after a year, he dropped out to pursue acting full-time. His big break came when he was cast as Danny Zuko in the London production of Grease. By the early 1970s, he was performing on Broadway and winning critical recognition for roles like Killer’s Head.
Breakthrough Roles
In 1977, Gere landed his first major film role in Looking for Mr. Goodbar. A year later, he starred in Days of Heaven, and in 1980, his leading role in American Gigolo made him one of Hollywood’s most talked-about stars.
His status as a leading man solidified with An Officer and a Gentleman and later Pretty Woman, the romantic comedy that became a cultural phenomenon.
Almost Passing on Pretty Woman
What many fans don’t know is that Gere nearly turned down the role of Edward Lewis in Pretty Woman. According to Gere, it was Julia Roberts herself who convinced him to take it. During their first meeting, she famously slipped him a note that read: “Please say yes.”
Looking back, Gere admitted that at the time, he felt he had already damaged his career. “I had to crawl a little bit to get scripts,” he once said, explaining that he had stepped away from mainstream films and wasn’t sure if opportunities would come again.
Reflections on His Career
Gere later admitted he wasn’t initially interested in romantic comedies, but Pretty Woman turned out to be a defining project. It allowed him to approach acting in a freer, less pressured way—something he carried with him for the rest of his career.
Still, he has mixed feelings about the film. In later interviews, Gere described it as “a silly romantic comedy” and expressed concerns that his character glorified Wall Street financiers.
Despite those reservations, there’s no denying the impact the film had on his career and on popular culture.
Hollywood and Personal Choices
Unlike many actors who pursue blockbuster roles, Gere has always followed his own path. He has never been part of a franchise or superhero film, choosing instead to work with acclaimed directors and focus on character-driven stories.
“My career has never been thought out,” he told The Independent. “I never engineered a career. I just have always done whatever I wanted.”
Advocacy and Challenges
Gere is also known for his outspoken advocacy. In 1993, while presenting at the Academy Awards, he used the platform to speak out on human rights issues in Tibet. His activism, along with his strong personal beliefs, reportedly led to difficulties with major studios—particularly because of tensions with the Chinese market.
Despite these setbacks, Gere continued to work steadily in independent films, staying true to his values.
Life Today
Now in his seventies, Richard Gere continues to focus on smaller, meaningful projects rather than large studio productions. He has said that these films give him the creative fulfillment he values most.
“I’m not interested in playing the wizened mentor in a blockbuster,” he explained. “I was successful enough in the last three decades that I can afford to do these smaller films now.”
Beyond his career, Gere is a devoted family man. He has been married three times and is now happily married to activist Alejandra Silva, with whom he shares a family life away from the Hollywood spotlight.
A Lasting Legacy
Richard Gere’s journey is proof that careers don’t have to follow a straight line. From Hollywood heartthrob to independent film mainstay, he has shown resilience, authenticity, and a commitment to his craft.
While he may not chase the biggest productions, his legacy is secure—built on iconic performances, bold choices, and a life lived on his own terms.
What’s your favorite Richard Gere film—Pretty Woman, An Officer and a Gentleman, or one of his independent projects?